Time for an Encore
In 1978, Jay was given a unique chance to work with the Aggie Band yet again. While in graduate school at Texas A&M, Jay’s brother, Daniel “Dan” Jay ’78—a senior Aggie Bandsman at the time—informed him of a sudden opening for the graduate assistant director position, and the rest was history. “It was an opportunity to work with the band I loved so much, and I enjoyed it immensely,” Jay said.
Along with beaming pride and an influential experience, the position left Jay with many story-worthy memories. Since a large part of his job pertained to instrument upkeep and inventory, travel operations for the Aggie Band often put Jay’s managerial skills to the test—especially in the case of the 1979 football matchup between Texas A&M and Rice University in Houston.
“A moving van was hired to transport instruments, but when we arrived in Houston, the instruments weren’t there—the truck broke down somewhere between Hempstead and Waller, so we had to march in the stadium without instruments,” he recalled. “But with 9:43 left in the second quarter, the instruments finally arrived, and we did the fastest unloading in history.” As Jay still vividly remembers, the Aggie crowd erupted as the basses walked down to the end zone for the halftime performance and completed a perfect drill without a hitch.
Whether it was inventorying new trumpets sent as a gift by the Marine Corps, holding the honor of announcing the Aggie Band at away games, or meeting the author of “The Aggie War Hymn,” Pinky Wilson ’20, Jay’s time assisting the Aggie Band was summarized by countless unforgettable experiences. “Taking that position was a decision I never regretted for a moment,” he said.
An Aggie Through and Through
Following his time as a graduate assistant director, Jay moved back to his hometown where he met his wife, Nerissa, and eventually opened his own frame shop and art gallery that he ran until retiring in 2023. Despite the time and distance between him and Aggieland, Jay’s maroon-blooded connection never faded.